5 Ways to Seduce and Flirt With Your Partner

Before we start discussing the five ways to seduce and flirt with your partner, we first want to define the words "seduce" and "flirt". Seduce means to entice, tempt or persuade someone into a desired state of being. (Sounds like fun, huh?) And flirt is defined as a casual, playful romance. (Sounds good too, right?) At the beginning of most relationships, partners tend to seduce and flirt with each other all of the time, without much effort or thought. But unfortunately, in some relationships, as time goes on, seduction (the act of seducing) and flirtation (the practice of flirting) are used only to signal to express a desire for sex or just as a prelude to sex.

However, for some people, seduction and flirtation are considered more of an art and are considered equal to, if not better and more important than, sex. Feeling desired and wanted by their partner is really important to most people. So, this month's challenge is for you to seduce and flirt with your partner every day. Here are 5 ways to help you get started:

1. First, you need to get yourself into a seduction and flirtation mindset. This is a very important first step since your thoughts create your feelings. Your view of yourself is going to have a major impact on your behavior. Thus, start thinking of yourself as the Seductive Temptress or Don Juan. How would they behave and what would they do? Play with the roles and remember to have fun!

2. Next, think back to the early days of your relationship, when you were dating and courting each other. We really love the word courting. Courting means to attempt to gain the affections of or love of; to woo. So, how did you let your partner know you were into him/her? How did you behave because you really wanted another date with them? Make a list of these behaviors and start doing them again!

3. Tempt your partner by dressing the part. Now, we're sure that Don Juan or the Seductive Temptress is not going to be wearing sweat pants, t-shirts, and flip flops, etc. on a date with someone they are interested in. We aren't against wearing these clothes but please don't wear them on date nights with your partner. So, next time you are out on a date with your partner (or are having a special pleasure night at home), dress in a way that sends the message, "I want you to be attracted to me".

4. Entice your partner nonverbally. Try to seduce and flirt with your partner without using any words. Convey your sexy thoughts of your partner with your body language only. For example, try to communicate "I want YOU" with your eyes. Gently rub your partner's arm or lightly touch their face.

5. Finally, don't just think it...say it! Tell your partner about your sexy thoughts of them. Let them know what's on your mind and how much you love and desire them. Give them real, not generic, compliments. For instance, instead of saying, "You have a nice smile", tell him/her why you think the smile is nice and what you specifically like about his/her lips. Be genuine because if you are not, your partner will know.

Again, the ideas above are just a few ways to help you get started. Remember, the acts of seduction and flirtation are important elements to keeping the flames of passion alive and burning strong in your relationship. As always, wishing you more connection and passion!